By Akeredolu Israel
Olagunju Tinuola Esther, a recent entrant into the Undergraduate program at the Faculty of Communication and Media Studies, Lagos State University (LASU), has bravely shared her distressing experiences stemming from relentless harassment by her classmates.
In a candid account, Ms. Olagunju has shed light on the emotional turmoil she endures due to bullying and rejection from her peers and fellow students.
Cyberbullying, body-shaming, and derogatory language have become a regular part of her life, causing significant psychological distress.
"People have been avoiding me, engaging in body-shaming, and labeling me with derogatory names that do not reflect my character. Hurtful comments, including terms like 'prostitute,' 'hook-up girl,' and '40k for a night,' have been directed at me," she revealed.
During her interview, she expressed her ongoing sense of isolation since joining the school, emphasizing the lack of friends due to deliberate avoidance by her peers.
"In my department, I can only say that I have one friend," she lamented.
Ironically, her depression has driven her towards seeking more social activities, including late-night gatherings and alcohol consumption as a coping mechanism.
"Alcohol provides temporary relief and a momentary escape from negative comments and unwanted advances from males. It helps clear my mind," she explained.
While she currently does not have suicidal thoughts, she expressed concerns that if these issues persist and impact her academic performance, such thoughts may arise.
Ms. Olagunju's experience highlights the urgent need to address bullying, cyberbullying, and social isolation within educational institutions. It also emphasizes the importance of providing mental health support and raising awareness of these critical issues among students and faculty.
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